I have a dear, childhood friend named Stephanie. We've been friends for about 15-16 years (wow, that's hard to believe). When we were growing up, Steph always talked about wanting a big family. If I'm remembering correctly, she wanted FOUR kids....and she wanted them all by the time she turned 30. She and her husband, David, got married in 2000....I think (I'm losing brain power these days). So, Steph would have been about 21. She and David enjoyed several years of marriage before trying for a baby. She was pregnant with Maddie when Joey and I got married in 2003. Madison was born in December 2003. They enjoyed her little self for about 18 months before starting to try again. I won't go into all of the details, but God took Steph down a road she didn't expect. Having Baby #2 didn't come easy for them. It was REALLY hard and emotional for them, but Stephanie always relied on her faith and her relationship with Jesus to get her through. As the months, and yes, years went by with no baby, I watched her grow stronger and stronger. I don't get to talk to her nearly as often as I wish I could, but each time I did talk to her, I could here new strength in her voice. I've always admired her faith and I watched it be put to the test and stand firm!
About a year ago, David and Steph decided to adopt a baby. They went with an adoption agency called Bethany. Bethany has a policy that if you are white, and you already have a biological child of your own, you have to adopt either a biracial baby or an african american baby. I could go into a hundred ways in how I find this ironic because of their close knit of friends here in Atlanta, but I won't! It was just a showing of God's goodness and mercy. Anyway, Stephanie turned 30 back in May. The week before her birthday, she called me and said "It's a boy!". A sweet, TINY, baby boy had been born and he was going to get the awesome priviledge of being a Cavin!!! When she called to tell me, I said, "See, God was up there thinking the whole time, you aren't 30 YET!" just as inside joke because of what she had always said.
Yesterday, their adoption became official!! Baby Boy G officially became
Tyson Reed Cavin. Can I just say that I think he is one of the cutest babies I have ever seen?! I can't wait to meet and hold him. Congrats David, Steph and Maddie. I know Tyson is the answer to years of prayer. I can't wait to see the man of God that he becomes; he is so lucky to have you to lead and guide him! I love you guys!